Maria Imtiyaz

A million dollar tip for a peaceful life is patience. It is very essential for a successful marriage as difficulties may arise in married life at different levels. Today husband wife relationship experiences strain because of the stressful life, busy schedules, aging parents, chronic health issues, raising kids, financial problems & the list goes on. Life will not be free of strain and stress, so patience is must. Why our families have so many disputes now a day? It is because we usually select spouses on the basis of beauty or  wealth; whether he or she has  T aqwa  (God fearing quality) or not is left as a secondary issue or not an issue at all.  Prophet (SAW) says: “ A woman is sought in marriage for four reasons; wealth, social status,  beauty  & deen piety) so seek the one with deen—may you then be successful’’  (Bukhari, Muslim) . Marriage is one of the  most  important decisions to start a new life and Islam i s clear on ...

Allah has blessed us with lot of bless ings a nd one of the rudimentary blessing s is the creation of our ton gue. Besides other functions it s  main f unction is to  speak and  express what we want . Indeed small in size, but it  plays an important role in ou r life . Controlling tongue is the basic teachings of  Islam . It can construct as well as destruct  which  can make   us dweller of  heaven  or hell ; all depends on how we use it.  Prophet  SAW  said,   when man wak es up in the morning each day, a ll parts of the body warn the tongue saying,   fear Allah as regards us for we are at your mercy, if you are upright, we will be upright and if you are crooked ,we become crooked.  And P rophet  SAW  said,   a man might speak a word without thinking about its implications,   but because of it,   he will plunge into the hell fire farther than the distance between the East an...